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Texas Tech Univ. School of Law

Thursday, October 29, 2020

Chicago woman's self-written obituary goes viral for her wise advice

EstateplanningA Chicago woman wrote her own obituary in which she provided timeless advice. Due to the good advice the obituary contains and the special fact that the woman wrote it herself, it has gone viral.

Stacy Lois Oliver, died on October 4. at the age of 52. Oliver died of multiple system atrophy, a progressive neurodegenerative disorder. Her death came only two years after her diagnosis/ 

Stacy's husband, Jeff Oliver, stated that she decided to write her own obituary after she found out that there was no cure for MSA. 

Jeff Oliver told Good Morning America, "She knew the disease was going to start taking more and more of her away," and "While she had it, she decided to get her thoughts out quickly."

Inspiring words from Stacy Oliver included, “I'm not telling you what to do, but I am telling you what to do,” and “Stop worrying about your weight, go live, be, do. Smile, people don't get to feel them enough.”

Stacy encouraged people to enjoy the moment and to laugh and love in abundance. 

See Ann W. Schmidt, Chicago woman's self-written obituary goes viral for her wise advice, Fox News, October 16, 2020. 


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