Wednesday, October 9, 2019
Scammers pull in billions of dollars every year by targeting the elderly, as much as $36.5 billion annually, and often the victims are too embarrassed and ashamed to mention it to their families. “One of the reasons parents don’t tell us when they may have fallen victim or come close is that they fear [their children will] pack up their home and they’ll lose their independence,” explains Ron Long, head of Wells Fargo’s Elder Client Initiatives Center of Excellence.
Adult children should broach the subject of their parents' increased vulnerability and impulsiveness tactfully. Amy Nofziger, director of fraud victim support at AARP, says that children should adopt an attitude of non-judgement and empathy when approaching the conversation. Communication lines should remain open between parents and children so the dialogue can established before they are scammed, and then the adult child can bring up other kinds of security concerns. If the familial water are troubled, bring in a trusted intermediary such as a financial advisor or cleric.
Basic technology can be confusing to those who may have already passed middle age by the time cellphones and email had become commonplace. Offer to make sure their security software is up to date, including firewalls and encryption applications. Remind them not to carry their Social Security card in their wallets.
See Steve Garmhausen, Financial Scams Targeting the Elderly Are Rising. Advisors Offer Precautions, Barron's, October 3, 2019.
Special thanks to Jim Hillhouse (Professional Legal Marketing (PLM, Inc.)) for bringing this article to my attention.