Thursday, May 23, 2019
The legendary actress and singer Doris Day passed away on May 13 at the age of 97, and it was no surprise to her longtime publicist Charley Cullen Walters that she did clearly stated in her will that she did not want a funeral, memorial, or even a grave marker.
Many around the country took to social media to remember the icon and mention their confusion with the odd situation of a Hollywood star not wanting any time spent memorializing her death. “[It] was something a lot of people were surprised [by] — some people were even upset by it,” Walters explained. “I personally completely understand that having worked with her.”
Walters said Day did not start acting to become famous. “There’s nobody like her anymore. She was truly an egoless person who did not crave the spotlight. In fact, she shied away from it. For her, her acting and her music career were her jobs." In fact, she left Hollywood in 1973 and had no intentions of returning. In fact, the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences reportedly offered Day a Lifetime Achievement Award about six times — and all six times she turned them down.
See Stephanie Nolasco & Julius Young, Doris Day Rejected Lifetime Achievement Award About Six Times, says Publicist: 'Our Job was to Protect Her,' Fox News, May 21, 2019.