Tuesday, August 7, 2012
Opening Up Adoptions
From the New York Times:
In the United States, the overwhelming majority of birth parents meet and choose their child’s adoptive parents. But most international adoptions are closed, meaning that many international adoptees leave the United States Immigration and Customs Enforcement agency with almost none of the family background that domestic adoptees take for granted. Genetic histories of heart disease, thyroid issues, alcoholism? Gone. So is the grandmother who loved to dance, the uncle who lived for soccer, the family recipes that hitch us to the past.
Our decision to open our daughter’s adoption was possibly reckless and probably naïve. We did it because her foster mother had met Helen and told us she loved her very much. If American women and men deserve to know what becomes of their children, it seemed hypocritical to deny Helen what we saw as a human right.
Read more here.
MR
Hat Tip: Naomi Cahn
https://lawprofessors.typepad.com/family_law/2012/08/in-the-united-states-the-overwhelming-majority-of-birth-parents-meet-and-choose-their-childs-adoptive-parents-but-most.html
If this is true, then opening up a child's adoption to the international level is a reckless act in my opinion.
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