Friday, February 24, 2012

Outsourcing in Exchange for Romance

From the Washington Post:

Two top economists, who happen to be a couple raising a daughter, think that paying others to do chores, including the bulk of childcare duties, may be an under-appreciated secret to stronger marriages.

Read more here.

Meanwhile, Slate has published relevant "Dear Prudence" advice:

Q. Housekeeper: This is a problem I am sure a lot of people would love to have. My boyfriend and I are in our late 20s and we both have good salaries. We talked about moving in together and we are fairly compatible. But here is the thing: He has a housekeeper. (That sound you hear is all my girlfriends rolling their eyes.) I do not think we need a housekeeper. Two people keeping a two bedroom apartment clean should be manageable. He thinks that if he hates to clean and can afford to pay somebody else he should. While I can't see anything outright wrong with that, part of me feels like he is indulgent and immature. I don't like to do a lot of things, but I do them anyway. He told me that if we let the housekeeper go then I will be totally responsible for all the cleaning. I think that is also unreasonable. Why can't he just pick up after himself? What if we can't afford a housekeeper in the future? Will he have any idea how to be self-reliant? Is it so wrong that I think we should be responsible for keeping such a small space clean?

A: Please dump this guy so he can find someone who will appreciate that a man who wants to pay someone a fair wage to keep his apartment clean is a keeper.

Read it here.

MR

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People take advantage of these situations due to immigration status.

Posted by: Grigsby Law Group | Feb 24, 2012 1:02:05 PM

This is a sad reality. If you think you can keep it clean without a need to hire a keeper talk to your guy and explain it to him. I think he will understand. :)

Posted by: Bob Smith | Mar 5, 2012 1:59:37 AM

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