Wednesday, June 11, 2014
The Spring 2014 issue of the ABA magazine "Experience" has a very interesting article on "Senior Drivers," written from the perspective of a traffic judge. It is the final article in a issue devoted to the theme of "Courts and the Elderly." (I reported on elder abuse articles yesterday.) Here's how Cook County, Illinois Judge Freddrenna M. Lyle opens:
"As the prosecutor and defense argued aggravation and mitigation in the trial I was conducting, I flashed back to the signs I had missed. I remembered the little dings and scratches on my dad’s car that he never wanted to discuss. At first, it was “that other driver” in the parking lot causing the damage. He then feigned ignorance as to how and when that dent appeared in the rear quarter panel. I realized I could no longer ignore the signs and began to research how to initiate 'the conversation.' Looking at the daughter accompanying her elderly dad to my courtroom that day, I knew that she, too, was about to have this talk. In fact, after I entered the sentence in her dad’s case, she asked me to have 'the conversation' because she frankly did not know what to say."
I suspect that having a copy of this article available as a family "conversation" tool -- perhaps to show your concern as a loving family member is part of a larger public concern -- might be useful.
Many thanks to Frances Del Duca, Esq., in Carlisle Pennsyvlania for sharing a hard copy of the recent issue of Experience magazine, published by the American Bar Association. It's a jam-packed issue for those concerned with elder justice, bringing to bear multiple perspectives. I just wish the articles were fully available to the public on the ABA website!